She Said

Marjorie McLellan, the older beekeeper in Sister Bee, passed away on Friday, July 16th.

“You know, you reach a time in your life when you’re not trying to impress. You just want to get along.” – Marge McLellan

The above quote is one of my favorites from Sister Bee. It’s a tricky one that I don’t think I got at first. I had a hunch it was important when Marge said it because her tone shifted from lighthearted self-deprecation to solemnity. At first I thought it had something to do with resignation and the giving up or softening of one’s opinions/principles/stridency with age. Today, having known Marge for awhile (and gained a few years, myself) I see it differently. I think she was talking about an opening that comes with maturity. When we’re young we have so much to prove! But as we age and gain confidence it’s possible to take a break from “trying to impress” to listen and appreciate what others have to say.

Marge McLellan using the uncapping knife on a frame of honey

Marge McLellan modeled graceful aging for me. She was a dear friend and mentor to many. I miss her already.

- Laura

Marge McLellan walking with her garden cart

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